I will not tiptoe in glass slippers when I was made to run with the Sword of Shan Yu.


May 13, 2019

I am just a couple of days away from the one-year anniversary since leaving Pablo. Some days I feel like everything has changed and my progress is great. Other days I feel like nothing has changed and my progress is slight. On the good days I tell my...

May 4, 2019

I spent the bulk of my last session with Andrea crying about missing Pablo because Pablo feels like home. The more I explained the feeling of missing Pablo, the more I broke down (uncontrollably, I might add). Sort of like when I realized I’m leaking...

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